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Welcome to our blog. Here at Apple Tree Speech and Language Therapy we are committed to helping children communicate more effectively. We support parents, carers and teachers, so that they can enable children to interact with others successfully. We look forward to hearing your thoughts, comments and queries about children's speech and language development.

The Silent Child. Is it selective mutism?

6/11/2014

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Several parents have contacted me recently with concerns that their child is able to talk but doesn't talk in certain situations. For example, he or she may talk freely and confidently at home, or with close family, but not at school or in front of strangers. If this has been continuing for several months, an assessment by a specialist is recommended following which the child may be described as having selective mutism. 

Reluctance to speak in certain  situations is usually accompanied by extreme anxiety, although the child may be happy to speak at other times. It can be very frustrating for the child and can prevent  them participating in activities. It is  sometimes misunderstood by others as awkward  or uncooperative behaviour, which results in further upset for the child. 

How can I help my child?

  • Help to reduce your child's anxiety. Spend time with your child doing activities he or she enjoys.
  • Take the pressure off your child to speak . 
  • Avoid asking direct questions in situations where your child is reluctant to speak. Don't insist your child says please or thank you. You could say "Thank you .We all enjoyed seeing you." 
  • Acknowledge the problem. Give your child the chance to discuss their feelings about talking.
  • Ensure others understand the problem and don't put pressure on the child to speak by asking questions. You could say, " Sarah is a bit shy in new situations. She will talk when she is ready."
  • The child may be more comfortable if others avoid eye contact in certain situations.
  • If your child whispers to you,  use a normal voice rather than whisper back.

Find out more about selective mutism

I have updated my website with new information on selective mutism.
Find out more about:
What causes selective mutism?
When to seek help?
What to expect from treatment?

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    Anna Koppenhout has been supporting children with speech and language difficulties and their families for 30 years. She worked in various  NHS settings and has established an independent speech and language therapy practice in Kingston Upon  Thames. She has worked with children with a wide range of disorders and has particular experience with autistic spectrum disorders and a special interest in cleft palate.

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